The Importance of Ritual Self Care


We are still living in uncertain times, whilst we prepare for 'freedom' here in the UK with the lifting of restrictions.  The pandemic situation still rages on.

We can easily get sucked into the drama of it all, which was my recent experience… I could sense my stress levels rising and the more that I allowed it to affect me, the more I started to feel scattered, anxious, and distracted.

Too many conflicting opinions and information, is enough to fry the brain and raise the stress levels.

Worrying saps energy and leaves no room for us to do the things we love, and I reminded myself that the only thing I can control… is how I react to things outside of my circle of influence.

So first up, I put the phone down and checked out of socials and the news!  As a society, we are so addicted to our phones, and we often find ourselves wasting precious time scrolling through various social media Apps and feeling triggered by what we see….. ultimately leading to stress. 

Then it was time to make sacred space and reconnect with myself, to get out of my head and back into my heart.  It felt so good to feel grounded and centred again.

As a semblance of normality (whatever that it is) continues to filter in… and with the latest news of a potential for face coverings to become voluntary, it may lead to some of us feeling vulnerable and that the level of safety we have felt wearing them, has been stripped away.

Whatever the different stresses are that arise that for us, it is important that we do things that help us to take care of our mental, physical, and spiritual health.   A daily ritual can help us to stay grounded and connected to ourselves, whilst negotiating the challenging times ahead (or any personal challenges we may face).

A ritual forms part of self-care, which we often overlook when the pressure is on and in Western culture, we are so action orientated, that we tend to think that creating sacred space for ourselves is a waste of time or even selfish.

In order to navigate our normal day to day stresses and the current world drama, we need find some stillness and check in with how we are really feeling.

When we make space to sit in ritual to be fully present with ourselves and to honour ourselves, we become more productive and grounded, allowing us to then lead with the heart.

Integrating a ritual into our schedule on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis gives us the opportunity to focus on ourselves and create space for any inner work we need to do.

Self-care is a loving act and is the practice of consciously doing things that preserve or improve our mental or physical health. 

"A daily ritual is a way of saying I’m voting for myself and I’m taking care of myself"

Mariel Hemingway

Ideas for daily self-care rituals:

A Teatime pause:  put the kettle on, make your favourite cup of tea and enjoy.

Breathe:  Lie on your yoga matt and take a few moments and bring your awareness to your breath as it moves in and out your body

Turn off the computer and go play outside:  Mother nature is the sweetest way to reconnect with yourself and get grounded.

Journalling:  Freewriting your thoughts is a beneficial way to get stuff out of your head and you may even identify possible solutions to anything bothering you.

Meditation:  Focusing on internal stillness and presence can calm your mind and relieve stress

Spend time with animals:  Having a furry friend can help you relax and bring joy to your day.

Decide how you want to feel today.

Self-care encourages us to maintain a healthy relationship with ourselves so that we can transmit the good feelings to others.

You cannot give to others what you don't have yourself.

My Favourite daily Self-Care Ritual

I love to get up for an early morning walk before I even consider starting my day.  The hush of the early morning, gives me space to feel a sense of oneness with all and I take this time to reflect on the miracle of life. On my return I put on some incense and maybe some soft music.  I have been recently making a cup of Cacao and spending time with this bitter drink, consciously connecting to her loving presence.  I then take a few minutes to journal my desired intention for the day ahead and anything else I would like to get out of my head and onto paper.  Sometimes I pull an oracle card for guidance and inspiration.

Rituals are ways to celebrate life and infuse our days with meaning.

Take care and do let me know what your favourite self-care ritual practice is?

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Wise and Untamed

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